Stop looking to make everyone else be what you want them to be. Just because you're a gentlemen doesn't mean that every woman wants a gentlemen, especially at your age. If you're a good guy, just make some friends, and eventually you'll find someone who's looking for the same thing.
Look at it this way, would you really want a girlfriend who would fuck a random stranger on a toilet? I wouldn't. No thanks.
Fuck anyone that thinks losing his/her virginity is some kind of status symbol. It's not. It's not worth worrying about.
Edit: And don't listen to anyone who's telling you to 'act indifferent' or whatever bullshit. A good girlfriend is someone you can open up and be yourself with. Why change for someone else?
There is a way that things should idealistically be and a way things actually are. Being able to open up to some one is one element of a relationship. However, when we say be indifferent or a jerk, It is simply referring to trying to capture the attention of a young woman. If you are boring, predictable and too nice then the young woman will lose interest. You should want the young lady to be interested in you and working to gain your attention. It isn't bull shit it is a means to an end that realistically has been proven through experience and time. Also sex isn't everything as @Catalisk: Go, so tactfully stated, however it is also a important element. Physical attraction and chemistry is important to propagate the species. Woman instinctively look for men that fits the cultural status quo. those who are physically and emotionally strong whom can be good providers or whom can take charge and be a man so to speak. For the majority of woman a guy talking about feelings all of the time is pretty emo and not sexy at all.
I agree with the virginity thing... realistically you should have it when you are emotionally ready for it. To much of a good thing gets old pretty quickly and it is really only meaningful if you have it with someone you really love.
Many men felt that they could trust the woman and open up to them and thought it was enough... and ultimately failed in the end due to vaios other factors.
Sounds like you had a narrow miss with that one. If the only thing you're able to get from a girl is sexual gratification, you may as well just masturbate.
well the love of money isn't a good thing but the main point of that statement is to convey that taking care of yourself and your well being is more important then concerning yourself with females. Because ultimately you gotta pay the cost to be the boss. Even if a woman is independent and making her own money it is expected that you have the ability to support her emotionally and monentarily because in this world your lively hood depends on it. love doesnt pay the bills. (I seriously doubt an 18 year old girl is that mature)
M.O.B is a philosophy that basically dictates that your livelyhood is a top priority followed by finding a mate. It is essentially the same principle that your other peers were refering to in a more colorful way.
Dude seriously... M.O.B. Money over bitches. Ask yourself what the hell do you want a serious relationship for in high school. Can you take care of yourself? Are you working towards goals that will benefit you in your future. Be realistic. Realistically dating is intended for you trying to find a suitable mate to eventually become married to. It sounds like you would have felt a lot better if you hit it or quit it. Hoes thrive off of chaos man and she loves that your upset right now. At you age honestly you date to have fun or have sex. If you intend to continue to date be like her and date around and have fun with female friends because she just made you look like a b-i-t-c... which is unattractive. Seriously. Man focus on making money and bettering yourself. Later in life a suitable woman will come to you.
Also stop crying about being a virgin. I tell you kids these days. Watch porn hub .com and other media outlets and think gee I wish I could have sex all of the time. The problem is too much of a good thing really gets old pretty quickly. When you become older and more mature you will want a woman that you have something in common with other then just having sex. That's why the divorce rate in the U.S. is so high.
With pretty girls you have to be indifferent. Because honestly how man dudes do you think are paying her attention and offering her d$@k on a daily basis. What makes you different from them. Many beautiful young woman are insecure. So if you don't pay them any mind they will think to themselves what's wrong with me what doesn't he like about me and then she will try to pursue you. Trust me kid I am speaking from experience. That's how younger immature females in your age bracket think.
No you can't be friends? and for gods sake don't tell your buds she broke your heart. Be like fuck that hoe. Be like I banged the shyt out of that breezy... wasn't good enough from me. Trust me nobody cares about a whore.
Do not wear your feelings on your sleeve. This is just a good life lesson that you need to learn from.
The number one pimp rule is:
To never.... neva eva eva... love them hoes.... okay.
Why should you feel horrible? A hoe is a hoe and while your crying guess what she is still being a hoe.
If you want to find true love... wait until your out of your parents house. Finish school... or join the military get established in a career. Mature a little more and find a well put together young woman. Not some triflin hoe that will want you to take care of them....
Better yet your in a metal band write a mean spiteful song about her being a slut and play it at a party of your peers when she is there. Focus on your music bro. If you become a rock star you won't have any of the problems your having now.
Remember friend. M.O.B. , never love them hoes, and please don't do anything rash to that girl or other dude and end up in jail while she is still being a hoe.
Ahhh youth. You live and you learn.
P.S. That gentlemen crap is out dated in this day in age that many hoes take advantage of. Realistically you should respect woman to a certain degree however the most important thing is to respect yourself in a relationship. If she is taking more than she is giving that should be a sign.
If your seriously dating you really have to go beyond going to a movie, eating out, and then (not in your case fucking) as mentioned by eternal wraith you were boring and thats why she screwed another guy. Most teen age girls (18 in my experience) are into that twiglight romantic crap and they think that they are being more mature than they actually are.
If your goal is to screw a girl it's not that hard find a girl find out what interests her pretend like you care. Be straight forward by sending dirty texts or what ever when your doing the asking questions text thing. Ask her about what she likes use that to your advantage. After a few weeks if you don't meet your goals its on to the next one. also DO NOT SEND GOOD MORNING OR GOOD NIGHT TEXTS DONT SEND HER ANY SIMPLY RESPOND TO HER TEXT MESSAGES.... honestly it's a trial and error game. love is for suckers.
Here is some homework because you have us intrigued. Create a new thread. Approach a new young lady or many and report a play by play and we will give you advice on what to do next. good luck you'll need it man
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yes... yes the dark side of the force is strong in this one... careless and less and less
@MotiveMe: Go
There is a way that things should idealistically be and a way things actually are. Being able to open up to some one is one element of a relationship. However, when we say be indifferent or a jerk, It is simply referring to trying to capture the attention of a young woman. If you are boring, predictable and too nice then the young woman will lose interest. You should want the young lady to be interested in you and working to gain your attention. It isn't bull shit it is a means to an end that realistically has been proven through experience and time. Also sex isn't everything as @Catalisk: Go, so tactfully stated, however it is also a important element. Physical attraction and chemistry is important to propagate the species. Woman instinctively look for men that fits the cultural status quo. those who are physically and emotionally strong whom can be good providers or whom can take charge and be a man so to speak. For the majority of woman a guy talking about feelings all of the time is pretty emo and not sexy at all.
I agree with the virginity thing... realistically you should have it when you are emotionally ready for it. To much of a good thing gets old pretty quickly and it is really only meaningful if you have it with someone you really love.
Many men felt that they could trust the woman and open up to them and thought it was enough... and ultimately failed in the end due to vaios other factors.
agreed
@AfroSama: Go
the two go hand and hand... often in a gentlemens club you can find a freelancer
@AfroSama: Go
$150 is way too much seriously if you go to a gentlemen's club you can get a way more reasonable price to get it out of your system.
@Victiln: Go
really couldn't have the decency to do it in a shower or a bed how romantic... tee hee silly rabbit tricks really are for kids.
@ChaosBerserker: Go
well the love of money isn't a good thing but the main point of that statement is to convey that taking care of yourself and your well being is more important then concerning yourself with females. Because ultimately you gotta pay the cost to be the boss. Even if a woman is independent and making her own money it is expected that you have the ability to support her emotionally and monentarily because in this world your lively hood depends on it. love doesnt pay the bills. (I seriously doubt an 18 year old girl is that mature)
M.O.B is a philosophy that basically dictates that your livelyhood is a top priority followed by finding a mate. It is essentially the same principle that your other peers were refering to in a more colorful way.
@ChaosBerserker: Go
what so your saying my argument isn't agreeable :p
@ZealNaga: Go
Nicely stated...
@Hookah604: Go
IN and out burger has the best french fries. I miss living in southern california!!!!!!
@cstorm15: Go
^ lol
Dude seriously... M.O.B. Money over bitches. Ask yourself what the hell do you want a serious relationship for in high school. Can you take care of yourself? Are you working towards goals that will benefit you in your future. Be realistic. Realistically dating is intended for you trying to find a suitable mate to eventually become married to. It sounds like you would have felt a lot better if you hit it or quit it. Hoes thrive off of chaos man and she loves that your upset right now. At you age honestly you date to have fun or have sex. If you intend to continue to date be like her and date around and have fun with female friends because she just made you look like a b-i-t-c... which is unattractive. Seriously. Man focus on making money and bettering yourself. Later in life a suitable woman will come to you.
Also stop crying about being a virgin. I tell you kids these days. Watch porn hub .com and other media outlets and think gee I wish I could have sex all of the time. The problem is too much of a good thing really gets old pretty quickly. When you become older and more mature you will want a woman that you have something in common with other then just having sex. That's why the divorce rate in the U.S. is so high.
With pretty girls you have to be indifferent. Because honestly how man dudes do you think are paying her attention and offering her d$@k on a daily basis. What makes you different from them. Many beautiful young woman are insecure. So if you don't pay them any mind they will think to themselves what's wrong with me what doesn't he like about me and then she will try to pursue you. Trust me kid I am speaking from experience. That's how younger immature females in your age bracket think.
No you can't be friends? and for gods sake don't tell your buds she broke your heart. Be like fuck that hoe. Be like I banged the shyt out of that breezy... wasn't good enough from me. Trust me nobody cares about a whore.
Do not wear your feelings on your sleeve. This is just a good life lesson that you need to learn from.
The number one pimp rule is:
To never.... neva eva eva... love them hoes.... okay.
Why should you feel horrible? A hoe is a hoe and while your crying guess what she is still being a hoe.
If you want to find true love... wait until your out of your parents house. Finish school... or join the military get established in a career. Mature a little more and find a well put together young woman. Not some triflin hoe that will want you to take care of them....
Better yet your in a metal band write a mean spiteful song about her being a slut and play it at a party of your peers when she is there. Focus on your music bro. If you become a rock star you won't have any of the problems your having now.
Remember friend. M.O.B. , never love them hoes, and please don't do anything rash to that girl or other dude and end up in jail while she is still being a hoe.
Ahhh youth. You live and you learn.
P.S. That gentlemen crap is out dated in this day in age that many hoes take advantage of. Realistically you should respect woman to a certain degree however the most important thing is to respect yourself in a relationship. If she is taking more than she is giving that should be a sign.
If your seriously dating you really have to go beyond going to a movie, eating out, and then (not in your case fucking) as mentioned by eternal wraith you were boring and thats why she screwed another guy. Most teen age girls (18 in my experience) are into that twiglight romantic crap and they think that they are being more mature than they actually are.
If your goal is to screw a girl it's not that hard find a girl find out what interests her pretend like you care. Be straight forward by sending dirty texts or what ever when your doing the asking questions text thing. Ask her about what she likes use that to your advantage. After a few weeks if you don't meet your goals its on to the next one. also DO NOT SEND GOOD MORNING OR GOOD NIGHT TEXTS DONT SEND HER ANY SIMPLY RESPOND TO HER TEXT MESSAGES.... honestly it's a trial and error game. love is for suckers.
Here is some homework because you have us intrigued. Create a new thread. Approach a new young lady or many and report a play by play and we will give you advice on what to do next. good luck you'll need it man