Time for another one of ChaosBerserker's Emotional threads
My Mother always used to say: "Treat girls with respect and do everything you can to please them and make them happy" Bullshit. For 5 years I've been an adorer of girls (also called a Gentleman), but what do i get? I'm nearly 18 years old, still a virgin (This isn't socially accepted where I come from if you're a guy at my age), I have had 1 girlfriend who cheated on me for 4 months, and now this:
3 days before Christmas, a girl began texting me. We had a Date the 30. December, where we both hugged and kissed, and i fell for her (when i fall i fall REALLY hard, it's kind of a curse). The next day, she made out with some other guy right up my face, banged him at the toilet and ignored me the rest of the evening . . . WTF?
I can't believe how someone can do something like that. Seriously, is she just cold as ice and doesn't give a FUCK about other people ? it sure doesn't seems like it.
But now I've come up with a solution: Ill be happier alone, all I've ever gotten from girls is Pain and a Broken Heart. So I'm done with them. . (no I'm not turning gay -.- , just turning a-sexual (meaning i don't want to have anything to do with that shit).
Hahahaaha *falls over chair*
Ah , Im sorry for my laughter. Your post was just kinda humorous for me;p
But yes. Girls dont really like the `nice gentleman` type. Cant blame them, I mean, You must admit its pretty boring.
You need to always keep your cool, have some attitude, be indifferent, and be the one in control;p.
At the moment you sound like a complete walk-over sissy.
Anyway, Im pretty sure, SoulCarveRR will come in and have some advice to offer you;p.
at the moment you sound like a complete walk-over sissy.
Hmm, not really, I've got a really muscular build, i do extreme sports, i am the singer in a local Metal band. Hmm, I don't see the sissy in that ^^
And to you other guys, yeah, I'm probably just to naive. Girls aren't as i imagined them to be, but now I'm done being naive, now ill try being a complete asshole to all the girls i meet, that seems to work well for my friends.. :/
Y... what he said. Also I had good laugh also. Not to you, but your situation :) .
There is no such thing as love. Only care about others, some.
Meaning that you have a girl doesnt mean that you will be forever in this stage, probbility.
So, if you want something, take it a let other know what you want.
Also... its not a big deal, so dont stress over that. If you want girl, go find her, do few misses but you will find some for sure.
If you dont want to, dont search. At the end you will probbly end with some girl. So, no rush...
Oh also, those are really wrong forums to post things like that, I mean...
It does. Actually you know what works ? Lie a lot, but dont lie too much. I mean, dont make things too big.
Always say better things about yourself than they actually are.
Its how human being works.
You people come from really sad worlds if thats your "normal"
a gentleman might not get a lot of pussies at the younger age, but he might actually get married and have a family and won't get a divorce like other 50% of the married couples.
There's an old saying: 'girls make you stupid' its true if you make them change you. and if you are really the gentleman you say you are then obviously you wont last with the jerk girls. You needs a girl who actually needs a gentleman, a girl who doesn't look just for sex.
If you let peer pressure change who you are, you're a nobody.
You people come from really sad worlds if thats your "normal"
a gentleman might not get a lot of pussies at the younger age, but he might actually get married and have a family and won't get a divorce like other 50% of the married couples.
There's an old saying: 'girls make you stupid' its true if you make them change you. and if you are really the gentleman you say you are then obviously you wont last with the jerk girls. You needs a girl who actually needs a gentleman, a girl who doesn't look just for sex.
If you let peer pressure change who you are, you're a nobody.
I agree on most point in your post except one. A human being should be adaptable to any situation, meaning that if he needs to become an asshole to get pussy he shall become an asshole. That is the smart thing to do.
A human being should be adaptable to any situation, meaning that if he needs to become an asshole to get pussy he shall become an asshole. That is the smart thing to do.
no thats the thing we shouldn't, we not having that trait is whats separating us form apes and cougars.
no that's the thing we shouldn't, we not having that trait is what's separating us form apes and cougars.
Humans are very much adaptable, if a young boy moves from his old school to a new one, he adapts to the rules of the new school. That's to adapt to a new environment, and that is what makes us humans and makes up a big part of our intelligence :)
Adapting is one of the things we humans are best at ^^
Not all girls like those ass*#@!s as you might think. I've got into a strange situation, where my girlfriend is from another city in my country (we had a internet love) and after some time, she got to my city (and she is 16 years old atm). I'm 17, a gentleman. We are together for more than 3 years, and we just met the new years eve. I tryed to conquer her for half a year, and then she was my in all love-like meanings.
Just an advice - to get to her, I had connections with more than 5 girls. All of them were different. If you are give up now, you are not going to find a girl that suits you and that you will love. Also, I have a thought - there is only one REAL love in our lives(what do you think about it?). We can like someone but we need to be sure, that she is the only one.
I suggest you to not allow it to break you. You can't be an ass when you fall in love - you are trying to make her happier. But you should be to squishy also.
They can really drive you crazy sometimes, like falling in love with your best friend *ahem*. If you go look around for a girl there's always a chance you find one you really like and that suits you. But generally, expect the majority not to work out. Also, if you just want pussy yourself then yea you can be a dick and get sluts like that, but would that make you happy in the long run?
Not all girls like those ass*#@!s as you might think. I've got into a strange situation, where my girlfriend is from another city in my country (we had a internet love) and after some time, she got to my city (and she is 16 years old atm). I'm 17, a gentleman. We are together for more than 3 years, and we just met the new years eve. I tryed to conquer her for half a year, and then she was my in all love-like meanings.
Just an advice - to get to her, I had connections with more than 5 girls. All of them were different. If you are give up now, you are not going to find a girl that suits you and that you will love. Also, I have a thought - there is only one REAL love in our lives(what do you think about it?). We can like someone but we need to be sure, that she is the only one.
I suggest you to not allow it to break you. You can't be an ass when you fall in love - you are trying to make her happier. But you should be to squishy also.
Good luck with girls. ;)
I think you are wrong with second part. A part from my research at least... Study more about human beings.
Love, true love, only one love, romance. Those are all things that arent natural to human beings and are thrown upon humans later. Mostly by religions. That's why you see lots of married people falling apart.
But hey, you are only 18 now. Its all child play. So play the game, there is plenty of time... Its almost impossible to get something you want to the rest of your life now.
Hmm, not really, I've got a really muscular build, i do extreme sports, i am the singer in a local Metal band. Hmm, I don't see the sissy in that ^^
Well thats pretty cool. But your personality maybe too "soft/mushy". ;p
I agree somewhat with the other guys in this thread though. Dont necessarily think this is a fail on your part. This chick you are talking about is probably the fail, and not worth it. Be who you are. If failure persists with most other women, then yea, maybe some changes are in order.
Either way, Dont be too much of a "Romeo". I recommend emulating Duke Nukem. Try it , and tell me how it goes;p.
Ooh the grabbag song
@GiantR
You have the most awesome picture on mapster.;p
Your ex-girlfriend cheated on you yet you're still a virgin...speaking of which that makes it easy to think this way. Something tells me the alternative isn't better (sorry homos). Also, your hobbies and physical attributes don't mean that you aren't a sissy pushover by default. That is determined by your attitude and style. Words and communication are more powerful than you think.
Time for another one of ChaosBerserker's Emotional threads
My Mother always used to say: "Treat girls with respect and do everything you can to please them and make them happy" Bullshit. For 5 years I've been an adorer of girls (also called a Gentleman), but what do i get? I'm nearly 18 years old, still a virgin (This isn't socially accepted where I come from if you're a guy at my age), I have had 1 girlfriend who cheated on me for 4 months, and now this:
3 days before Christmas, a girl began texting me. We had a Date the 30. December, where we both hugged and kissed, and i fell for her (when i fall i fall REALLY hard, it's kind of a curse). The next day, she made out with some other guy right up my face, banged him at the toilet and ignored me the rest of the evening . . . WTF?
I can't believe how someone can do something like that. Seriously, is she just cold as ice and doesn't give a FUCK about other people ? it sure doesn't seems like it.
But now I've come up with a solution: Ill be happier alone, all I've ever gotten from girls is Pain and a Broken Heart. So I'm done with them. . (no I'm not turning gay -.- , just turning a-sexual (meaning i don't want to have anything to do with that shit).
Fuck my life.
@ChaosBerserker: Go
Hahahaaha *falls over chair*
Ah , Im sorry for my laughter. Your post was just kinda humorous for me;p
But yes. Girls dont really like the `nice gentleman` type. Cant blame them, I mean, You must admit its pretty boring.
You need to always keep your cool, have some attitude, be indifferent, and be the one in control;p.
At the moment you sound like a complete walk-over sissy.
Anyway, Im pretty sure, SoulCarveRR will come in and have some advice to offer you;p.
Yeah, you're the perfect type for girls to take advantage of. A bit of betrayal is good for taking away that naiveness.
Like EternalWraith said, you have to be indifferent. If you care too much then you'll get screwed over, one way or the other.
srsly, kissing a girl does not make her your girlfriend. though I gotta say, pussies always fuck assholes. (anyone seen team america? :o) true tho :P
She just wants sex. This might be harsh for you, but this is true.
Hmm, not really, I've got a really muscular build, i do extreme sports, i am the singer in a local Metal band. Hmm, I don't see the sissy in that ^^
And to you other guys, yeah, I'm probably just to naive. Girls aren't as i imagined them to be, but now I'm done being naive, now ill try being a complete asshole to all the girls i meet, that seems to work well for my friends.. :/
@EternalWraith: Go
Y... what he said. Also I had good laugh also. Not to you, but your situation :) .
There is no such thing as love. Only care about others, some.
Meaning that you have a girl doesnt mean that you will be forever in this stage, probbility.
So, if you want something, take it a let other know what you want.
Also... its not a big deal, so dont stress over that. If you want girl, go find her, do few misses but you will find some for sure.
If you dont want to, dont search. At the end you will probbly end with some girl. So, no rush...
Oh also, those are really wrong forums to post things like that, I mean...
@ChaosBerserker: Go
It does. Actually you know what works ? Lie a lot, but dont lie too much. I mean, dont make things too big.
Always say better things about yourself than they actually are.
Its how human being works.
Look for far better, but pretend to be better.
No, i like this Forum, cause even though I'm down. All your sarcasm and trolling brings me back up again :P (strange? yeah i know.. )
Girls remind me of the song: Bullet For My Valentine - Pretty on the Outside ^^
You people come from really sad worlds if thats your "normal"
a gentleman might not get a lot of pussies at the younger age, but he might actually get married and have a family and won't get a divorce like other 50% of the married couples.
There's an old saying: 'girls make you stupid' its true if you make them change you. and if you are really the gentleman you say you are then obviously you wont last with the jerk girls. You needs a girl who actually needs a gentleman, a girl who doesn't look just for sex.
If you let peer pressure change who you are, you're a nobody.
@ChaosBerserker: Go
Trolololol!! *insert stupid troll remarks here*
I agree on most point in your post except one. A human being should be adaptable to any situation, meaning that if he needs to become an asshole to get pussy he shall become an asshole. That is the smart thing to do.
no thats the thing we shouldn't, we not having that trait is whats separating us form apes and cougars.
Humans are very much adaptable, if a young boy moves from his old school to a new one, he adapts to the rules of the new school. That's to adapt to a new environment, and that is what makes us humans and makes up a big part of our intelligence :)
Adapting is one of the things we humans are best at ^^
Not all girls like those ass*#@!s as you might think. I've got into a strange situation, where my girlfriend is from another city in my country (we had a internet love) and after some time, she got to my city (and she is 16 years old atm). I'm 17, a gentleman. We are together for more than 3 years, and we just met the new years eve. I tryed to conquer her for half a year, and then she was my in all love-like meanings.
Just an advice - to get to her, I had connections with more than 5 girls. All of them were different. If you are give up now, you are not going to find a girl that suits you and that you will love. Also, I have a thought - there is only one REAL love in our lives(what do you think about it?). We can like someone but we need to be sure, that she is the only one.
I suggest you to not allow it to break you. You can't be an ass when you fall in love - you are trying to make her happier. But you should be to squishy also.
Good luck with girls. ;)
They can really drive you crazy sometimes, like falling in love with your best friend *ahem*. If you go look around for a girl there's always a chance you find one you really like and that suits you. But generally, expect the majority not to work out. Also, if you just want pussy yourself then yea you can be a dick and get sluts like that, but would that make you happy in the long run?
I think you are wrong with second part. A part from my research at least... Study more about human beings.
Love, true love, only one love, romance. Those are all things that arent natural to human beings and are thrown upon humans later. Mostly by religions. That's why you see lots of married people falling apart.
But hey, you are only 18 now. Its all child play. So play the game, there is plenty of time... Its almost impossible to get something you want to the rest of your life now.
Well thats pretty cool. But your personality maybe too "soft/mushy". ;p
I agree somewhat with the other guys in this thread though. Dont necessarily think this is a fail on your part. This chick you are talking about is probably the fail, and not worth it. Be who you are. If failure persists with most other women, then yea, maybe some changes are in order.
Either way, Dont be too much of a "Romeo". I recommend emulating Duke Nukem. Try it , and tell me how it goes;p.
Ooh the grabbag song
@GiantR
You have the most awesome picture on mapster.;p
@EternalWraith: Go
Ermm. is this the part where I'm supposed to say that i actually play Romeo in a Musical that's about to go live on the 26.th of January ? xD
But Duke Nukem eh ?, ill try that and tell you how it goes :P
Also, i totally agree that GiantR has the most awesome pic on Mapster xD (i <3 Meme's)
Your ex-girlfriend cheated on you yet you're still a virgin...speaking of which that makes it easy to think this way. Something tells me the alternative isn't better (sorry homos). Also, your hobbies and physical attributes don't mean that you aren't a sissy pushover by default. That is determined by your attitude and style. Words and communication are more powerful than you think.